1
July
2008
What do you think of when you hear bondage? Are you thinking of people in heavy leather outfits, smacking each other around in dark, wet dungeons? Do you think of loud noises and barking orders and people on all fours? Do those thoughts turn you on anyway? :-). What I’m getting as is, even the most vanilla (or strawberry) of couples can enjoy light bondage play. You don’t need to be a welder to create your own bondage gear, either.
Bondage products are available in a beginner’s format. They are usually made of materials like soft faux leather and neoprene. They wrap around the body and use Velcro (for example) to lock. They are made to be very comfortable and to allow partners to engage in a play designed around being dominant or submissive. Imagine having your partner bound to the bed, while you run a tickler over them. Or having them locked to the headboard on their stomach, while you hoist their waist into the air and give it to them doggy style.
Women, imagine that your man is bound by his wrists and can’t stroke himself while you do the most erotic of strip teases. Men, imagine that your girl is locked to the bed while you use a vibrator to make her orgasm again and again (and again, you smooth devil you!).
Of course, with all bondage play, there comes safety. Main point is to always make sure that your partner is comfortable. That’s why you have what’s called a safeword. This word can be any code word you two agree on that will immediately tell the other that things are getting a bit too rough. As long as that phrase isn’t “Oh, God!” or “That feels good”, you’re in pretty good shape to pick anything.
Why not give light bondage a try? If you have given it a whirl (or a spank or a flog), leave a comment and tell us about it. Tell us a story, we like stories.
Posted under For Her, For Him, Orgasms
23
June
2008
This has been a question that has plagued us for the longest time: What’s the power behind the orgasm? What is it about those few minutes of pleasure that make us want more, that makes us so glad we put up with the horrible dinner experience, that makes men fall asleep. You ask someone if they would want their favorite dinner whenever they asked for it for a year or one good strong orgasm once — who’s NOT picking the orgasm?
But what is it about that? I don’t mean for you all to start giving the Web MD answer to the question :-), but speak personally. Why do you think you enjoy your orgasms so much? Would you take a good orgasm over good food for a year? I only ask it that way because some of us have returned from lunch.
Posted under Observations, Orgasms, Q&A, Sexual Prowess
16
June
2008
So the film has finally been released. Now I’ll admit (and I’m a guy) that I own all six seasons of the television show (and will still watch them occasionally). But I’m a little hesitant to go see the movie. Don’t know why. I’ve always enjoyed knowing what women think when it comes to men and sexual matters — so you would think that I would be at the front of the line. Not to mention the movie made the Jack Rabbit Vibrator a household name, one that has oozed from the lips of women for years.
Then I guess the media started in about how it’s such a girl’s movie and that guys would be in the theatre saying stuff like “So when does Bruce Willis come in and blow up the place?” or “When does Carrie’s car transform into a robot and destroy stuff?” Yes, men, we can be so predictable.
But tell me: Anyone who saw the film what do you think of it? Was it worth the price of admission? Was it worth waiting for it to be run on HBO? Pay per view, maybe? Fill us in and voice your opinion.
Posted under For Her, Observations, Sex Toys
3
June
2008
We spend more hours at our jobs than we do indulging ourselves in our ultimate fantasies, with or without a partner. That’s a shame – wouldn’t our days go so much nicer if we could get a little extra pleasure during the work day? Thank god for twenty-first century technology – now there are sex toys you can have fun with during work, without anyone noticing a thing. Let’s do a quick countdown of the Top 3 toys we recommend that would make you want to add a private door and roof to your cubicle 
For The Girls:
3. Pop Masseur Vibrating Lipstick – A tube of bright red lipstick is sleek and sexy. A vibrating tube of bright red lipstick is H-O-T! Unlike many vibrators, it’s silent, so not even the girl in the bathroom stall next to you will know you’re enjoying a little vibrating love.
2. Trinity Mini-Massager – At under $10, this tiny vibe fits into any purse, and its iridescent look would confuse anyone! And hey, who said size matters anyway?
1. Remote Controlled Vibrators – Yes, you heard us right, not only do we have remote controlled toys, we now have remote controlled sex toys! Are you hot and heavy with someone at work? If they sit up to 25 feet away, they can give you discreet pleasure allllll day.
For The Guys:
3. The Head Honcho Male Stimulator – It doesn’t matter whether you’re the head honcho at your job or not – you’ll feel like the king of the castle with the Head Honcho Male Stimulator. It’s about five inches long and is crafted out of silicon for a great fit.
2. Cyber Sex Buddy – Here’s a male masturbator that fits in your hand and is under $30! It’s small enough to fit inside that little compartment in your briefcase, but big enough to give you intense pleasure.
1. Justine’s Futuoritic Vagina – No, we’re not talking about Justine in Sales. We mean renowned porn star Justine – this is an actual mold of her real-life vagina. It’s crafted from realistic material and has a vibrating insert to make it seem like the real thing. I mean, come on guys…or just come 
What gets you through the work day?