29
April
2008
An interesting question worth exploring is the use of music during sexual activity. For every couple there could be a genre, artist or style of music that helps to create that atmosphere that they need to get things going. Some like jazz, some like R&B, some like rock even — although I haven’t found a couple that likes to get their bump and grind on during gospel music (even though they may tend to scream “Oh, God!” a lot).
I actually, don’t use music during sex. I tend to think that the pleasure filled sounds emitting from my partner and myself are music enough. Or maybe I enjoy that air swishing sound that my cat makes when he’s tilting his head to try to figure out what the hell is happening in front of him.
So do you use music during sex? What artist(s) or style(s)? I’m curious to see what gets you going as far as audio is concerned.
Posted: Observations, Sexual Prowess
28
April
2008
If everyone in the world had an orgasm for each day that these primaries lasted, we’d all be more mellow people. Don’t you think?
Posted: Observations, Orgasms
28
April
2008
Did anyone catch the Katie Morgan series on HBO. Hell, if my host was naked and trying to explain something to me, I’d pay attention too (down boy down!). Hell, I’m sure college would’ve been a completely different experience. Although I don’t know if I wanted to be in a rehearsal with a bunch of naked musicians (I studied music in college, by the way).
I think her documentaries were very well done: funny, cool, hip and very pleasing for the eyes (gee, I wonder why!?)…
Catch that documentary if you can. I’d like to know what you think of it.
Posted: Sex Toys
25
April
2008
If you’ve been to the front page of our store and noticed that the images in the center of the page keep changing, don’t worry that’s not your eyes totally messing with you. We’ve added a new feature recently which allows for three random new items to display in our “Hot, New & Just For You” section. With every refresh of the page, you’ll see three different items that we have recently released to Healthy and Active within the past couple of weeks.
It gives you a chance to stumble upon a hot new item you might not have been able to find otherwise. We’re proud that we’re able to offer at least 5-7 new items every week and we know you’d want to always be in the know of what they are.
Posted: Sex Toys, Store Updates
25
April
2008
Welcome to the first installment of Fetish Friday. It’s here that we can discuss a popular fetish or sexual attraction in our active community. Feel free to share your experiences with the topics discussed here or comment about your pros/cons of it. Not everything is going to be for everyone, but we all can have an open discussion, no?

So let’s talk about chastity. For those who don’t know, chastity is the sexual practice of locking one’s genitals into a device for the purpose of restraint, etc. In “can you break that down?” terms it means that a device is put on you that keeps you from using your sexy parts 100%. For men, that could mean having steel wrapped around your penis so that you couldn’t get a full erection. Women’s chastity is used to keep people from accessing her vagina.
Some enjoy the entrapment appeal. The men that I’ve seen discuss this say that there’s something about not being able to get fully hard or not being able to touch themselves while watching their partner is, in itself, a turn on. So that when they are finally released, it’s like a ‘caged animal’ effect.
Well, grr baby — very grr!
We sell a couple of chastity devices at Healthy and Active. Our partner store Extreme Restraints has a wide variety of devices for both men and women.
But tell me… what’s your opinion about chastity? Do you like having your area locked up and not-so-accessible? What are your opinions?
Please share…
Posted: Fetish Friday, For Her, For Him, Sex Toys