April
2008
Fetish Friday
Welcome to the first installment of Fetish Friday. It’s here that we can discuss a popular fetish or sexual attraction in our active community. Feel free to share your experiences with the topics discussed here or comment about your pros/cons of it. Not everything is going to be for everyone, but we all can have an open discussion, no?
So let’s talk about chastity. For those who don’t know, chastity is the sexual practice of locking one’s genitals into a device for the purpose of restraint, etc. In “can you break that down?” terms it means that a device is put on you that keeps you from using your sexy parts 100%. For men, that could mean having steel wrapped around your penis so that you couldn’t get a full erection. Women’s chastity is used to keep people from accessing her vagina.
Some enjoy the entrapment appeal. The men that I’ve seen discuss this say that there’s something about not being able to get fully hard or not being able to touch themselves while watching their partner is, in itself, a turn on. So that when they are finally released, it’s like a ‘caged animal’ effect.
Well, grr baby — very grr!
We sell a couple of chastity devices at Healthy and Active. Our partner store Extreme Restraints has a wide variety of devices for both men and women.
But tell me… what’s your opinion about chastity? Do you like having your area locked up and not-so-accessible? What are your opinions?
Please share…
yes, the thought of being restrained by a device, can make a man feel highly sensual and vuneralble to expressed sexual behavior. i think being unable to access ones privates in the middle of sex, can make the man act more femenine, by moaning and moving his body. the restraint allows men to be more aware of their bodys. they touch themselves in a way making their bodies react as if their penis were getting erect and aroused. that feeling makes the man want more so he can get a nut. but the orgasm is challenging to enact on a man without masterbating the cock or anally messaging the prostate. so the arousal has to be something that is sexually mastered by the man or by a mate. the stimulus can be moaning like a women that is getting drilled by a huge cock. the thought alone can make one cum all on themselves. ive tied my package up by shoestrings, to where it looks like a vigana, tucked and pulled between my legs and hidden in the gap b/t my balls and asshole. then i go lay down on my stomach nude and fantasize about myself being a women touching herself only w/ a 10 in dong while eating pussy. the mood is that im getting it good deep inside of me, and enhances my emotional and sexual desire causing me to moan and yell like a virgin. it always makes me experience the full potential of my ability to cum on myself like a women. my orgasm are like a minute long when i do this. i cant get enough of watchin me on tape preforming this type of sexual fetish. usually, if you can stradlle something and have a vibrator up in ur butt at the same time, then you will feel something so powerful deep within, that constantly gets stimulated causing me to shiver and express my feelings through sounds and body movement. human beings naturally want a orgasm to last and explode a rush of semen or pussy juice twice as hard and twice the quantity then that of a conventional jackk off. i guess every person has their own way of getting that ultimate nut that makes you want to try a new way of pleasuring oneself. sometimes 3 ways with yourself and ur mind can dictate your sexual level. i dont care that its taboo, or it might look and sound gay, i enjoy it intensly b/c it releases a part of me that knows how to reach my sexual desires and try and test them until, i get exhausted and have to stop due to prolonged exercises of me doing in order to climax. try it out. tuck in your cock and spread out ur ass and arch ur back while making sexual sounds and playing around with ur self. touch a part that u feel needs it and concentrate on it and cumming all over the place. i bet you start feeling less stressed and physically ready.