22
October
2008
Do you remember back in the school when you saw a guy get beat up by a girl? Do you remember when his friends would laugh at him. Apparently, getting dominated by a girl wasn’t looked upon too favorably in social circles. Now, it’s probably those same guys who have a one-a-week encounter with Dominatrix [insert name here].
When I started working here a few years ago, I became fascinated with the appeal of light bondage — and to an extent role play, in general. Men, who spend 40 hours a week (maybe more) being corporate and managerial; who are giving out the orders and making sure that their team(s) run smoothly, could find themselves for a couple of hours on the weekends, taking orders and being dominated by a woman (be it their wife, girlfriend or hired dominatrix).
Today, I’m still fascinated with the idea of light bondage. In talking to some of my friends who regularly engage in the practice, I’m sure their sick of me asking every 5th question “What’s the appeal for you?”. Of course, everyone has their own reasons for enjoying light bondage and I’ll probably never get one generic answer, but I still find the different reasons that people use to be interesting: They’ve said anything from “I enjoy letting my partner have all of the power” to “I’m spend a majority of my life giving the rules, and sometimes I just want to receiving the rules” to “It’s the best way for me to reach an orgasm”. All fascinating thoughts.
So I wanted to pose the question to the readers: Do you engage in light bondage play (or even role play)? If you don’t what makes you hesitant to try it? If you do, what ultimately put you in the realm to try it and what kept you there?
Posted: For Her, For Him, Observations, Q&A, Sex Toys, Sexual Prowess
22
October
2008
You can bet there’s going to be a ton of “Spiderman” costumes this Halloween, but what about a sexy variation for the ladies? Here’s our pick for a “Spidergirl” costume.
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Posted: Adult Events, For Her
21
October
2008
There’s an article posted over at the MSNBC website that tells about InSPOT. InSPOT is a company that sends out “greeting cards” to your former sexual partners asking them to be tested for any sexually transmitted disease. Should you find out that you have any STDs you can use this service to warn and alert your former partners.
I can honestly see both sides of this, but I want to ask what you all think of such a practice. Would you prefer that people handle it face to face or is sending a card an acceptable practice?
Posted: Observations, Q&A
21
October
2008
Hey all, this is Shannon over at HealthyandActive! I’ve been writing here for quite awhile, but thought I needed to finally introduce myself! I’m your average 20-something, and I look pretty innocent, but that’s only on the surface! Keep checking out our blog for more great posts, and visit me on Twitter at Twitter.com/Positive_Vibes
We all know yoga is great for soothing relaxation, but won’t those great moves make us better at sex, too? Leave it to your favorite lady sex blogger to find out. And oh, did I have fun 
Bound Ankles
No, I’m not talking about light bondage here, though that’s pretty hot, too. Sit down, and bring the soles of your feet together, placing your hands on your ankles. Hinge forward toward your hips as much as you can.
Bedroom Translation: Sit on the edge of the bed with your legs up as far as possible towards your shoulders, holding your ankles for balance, as your partner stands at the edge of the bed and enters you. Roll back slowly to keep it comfortable for you, raising your hips to make the sensation even more amazing.
Yoga Pushups
Lower your body toward the floor in a traditional pushup position, but as you get closer to the floor, raise your upper body towards the sky, and exhale. Hold for 2-3 seconds. Lower in traditional pushup position.
Bedroom Translation: In girl on top position, lower yourself over your partner’s body, and slowly arch your back up as you did during the yoga position. The angle will feel great for you, and your partner will love the view.
Legs Against The Wall
Lay on your back with one leg raised against a wall. Slowly raise your other leg against the wall, keeping your hands at your sides. Hold for 2-3 seconds.
Bedroom Translation: Lay on the bed, and have your partner kneel in front of you. Slowly raise your legs to gently rest on his shoulders. As he enters you, guide his thrusts by placing your hands around his hips, making him feel even deeper inside you.
I have a feeling there’s going to be some satisfied ladies out there tonight. Tell me how it goes, girls! And for any guys reading, try these positions out with your girl tonight – you’ll both be screaming in pleasure.
The Kama Sutra has even more hot sex positions. Mmm.
Posted: For Her, For Him, Sexual Prowess
20
October
2008
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The more I look at our economy news (I’m a big politics/current events guy), the more I think “Well, if they’re gonna keep you indoors because it costs too much to go out anywhere… have more sex”, right? Yet, I also understand that even sex toys stores can seem like a real luxury. In the early days of this economic slide, I set out to create a category designed to showcase our products that are great but won’t break the bank.
Then I tried to figure out what would be the high point: $50, $35? So I finally decided on $20. Reason being is that it’s the same amount you’d get at an ATM and because there are a great deal of products that fall under that ceiling price. So I tell you what, you go get yourself some hot toys and show the stock market that there are plenty of things in America that can still rise, be strong and stimulate!
Posted: For Her, For Him, Sex Toys
