Getting to Know naughtyeliot1

Eliot

While there is an inherent individuality in all blogs, naughtyeliot’s Thoughts On Naughtiness & Kink strikes the reader immediately with it’s ‘difference’. It is not only the style of her blog that reads more like a diary than any other blog I’ve seen, but Eliot herself who seems a diary-writer. Is that a term? It is now.

Essentially, there is an absolute interest in honesty. Eliot may be hiding a bit more than most sex bloggers, never revealing her face, but she contradicts this anonymity with what I never doubt to be the purest of truths. While she employs a welcoming style and language, this is Eliot’s space. It is categorized, asked and answered, addressed and redressed, and grown in. In short, it is the written version of a person. I get the distinct impression that while Eliot is happy to have you, were no one ever to read her blog again, that would be fine too. This is first and foremost for her.

The most obvious thing that sets Eliot apart from most sex bloggers, and most adults, really, is that she is a virgin. She is most acutely sexually aware and sexually explorative, but in the truest senses of the word she completely satisfies the requirements. This virginity is tied to nothing but the woman herself – not religion, not patriarchal rebellion – none of the usual suspects. In that she owns this aspect of herself so completely, she and the reader are permitted a rare insight into the wide-eyed wonder of a woman quite realized, but as of yet, physically bound by nothing and no one but her choice. There is no obvious A+B=C. I certainly don’t feel confident that any given experience or lack thereof has produced any subsequent emotion or personality trait. However, this virginity does play into things in the logical way, and it makes for an interesting possibility of a defined ‘before and after’ Eliot.

I have only been talking with Eliot on Twitter a short time, but can say that I felt immediately at ease with her. While I wish she was more accepting of herself and her body, I would be lying were I to say I am completely at ease with myself or my own, so I understand it’s a journey, and am confident she is heading in the right direction for her. I’m also confident she has a lot to offer, and you won’t be disappointed if you give her a read. Not that she needs you to.

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