Are you getting horny for the holidays?3

It would be safe to say that we’ve officially entered the holiday season. With Halloween coming up, you soon have Thanksgiving around the corner and then it’ll be Christmas (and technically New Year’s since most of us take New Year’s Day off). 

Each of these individual holidays bring with it a new and exciting way to entice, romance and appreciate your partner. They all offer you a chance to be creative in (and out of) the house.

Take Halloween, for example. What do you plan to dress up as? Halloween is a great time to maybe try role playing in the bedroom. You and your partner can dress up as totally new people and see what sex would’ve been like if those two people have met. Maybe she can act like a nurse, trying to get you back to health or maybe the guy can be a wrestler while his partner acts like his coach.

One awesome idea would be for the young lady to get into a total exotic dancer motif: Pick up a dance pole, sexy lingerie and some music. Put those things together and you have the makings of great eye candy for your partner.

Now let’s think about Thanksgiving. This is a time where you can quite possibly turn your partner into a dessert that’s much more fulfilling than any pumpkin or sweet potato pie could ever be. Lie them on the bed, blindfolded and spray their entire body with chocolate. Then proceed to use your tongue to gently remove the sauce from their body. Be sure to put extra chocolate on places that you plan to use your tongue for extended periods of time (you know what places I’m talking about!)

Maybe she would like to wear edible underwear and allow her partner to eat their way to paradise?

Then there’s Christmas Day, that joyous occasion where you open up new gifts and spend quality time together. Imagine if your partner came down the steps wearing a simple silk thong that was tied in a bow? Imagine the look of delight as the bow is untied…

There are plenty of things you can do to make the holiday season a fun, festive, sexy and stimulating time for you and your partner. Mistletoe isn’t always needed, egg nog doesn’t have to be consumed in mass quantities and sometimes the the joke of “This Christmas, I plan to open just one…special…box.” might go a long way. Yes, ok that line is lame, I admit it, but maybe it’ll be different when whispered….no!?…well I tried.

Let’s get ready for 2 months of excitement! The holidays are upon us… let’s have it ride us cowgirl style, yeah!?

Posted: For Her, For Him, Sexual Prowess

Yeah, baby…I’ll show you a *noodle*!0

A little something funny for your Friday…had you going didn’t it?

Posted: Across the Internet, Videos

Today is Spirit Day!0

Most people know Wednesday to be “Hump Day”, but today we’re giving it an extra special meaning. You see, today is Spirit Day, a day to remember the recent wave of gay-related suicides that have taken place. People are encouraged, today, to wear purple to show their support for this initiative.

We are of the belief that everyone should be able to live their life free and open without worry of ridicule based upon their sexual orientation. We should do what we can to make our society an open-arms, welcoming community for all.

Posted: Across the Internet, News, Observations

HIV/AIDS is still a very powerful subject3

I’m sure that recently you’ve heard the story of an adult performer who had tested positive for HIV. Because of this news, adult video companies have shut down productions and performers are being tested to see if they have come into contact with the virus as well.

The type of buzz and discussion that this news generated goes to show that AIDS is still a very powerful and relevant subject – especially in today’s culture which broadcasts plenty of sexual themes via television, movies, books and even some video games. Since sex is very prevalent, diseases such as HIV/Aids are also given a higher profile.

There have been many wonderful things done to bring awareness to the subject, including the recent AIDS Walk LA. One of the ladies who works here at Healthy and Active was highly engaged in the effort, even going as far as to help plan/execute a fundraiser to gather additional money for the event. Pictures from the event can be seen via AVN (link).

Now, we all agree that sex is a wonderful experience between partners but we want you to always be safe and sexy. It’s how the Twitter account signs off every day and it something we truly subscribe to.

While this month is about Breast Cancer awareness, use this opportunity to also get tested for testicular cancer (men), HIV and other infections. Have open and honest discussions with your partner about these topics and use condoms.

Be safe and sexy, everyone!

Posted: News, Observations, Sexual Health

So does this make a nice visual representation…1

…of something many women do every day (sometimes several times a day)?

Posted: Across the Internet, For Her