30
April
2009
I’ve noticed there’s a bit of a sex recipe for summer teen horror movies lately:
1. Group of teens head to secluded cabin in the woods for a weekend
2. Teens have sex
3. Teens getting off get “offed” by the horror movie’s villain
4. Only the chaste teens survive, typically a guy and girl
We don’t quite like that recipe – it not-so-subtlety implies that having sex means you’ll get killed, at least in a horror movie! Sure, you should always have safe sex and make sure you’re 100% ready for sex, but there’s nothing wrong with enjoying sex!
The Horror Movie Sex Challenge:
Here’s what we challenge you to do – get with your partner and have sex in all the typical horror movie spots, such as:
- In your car
- By the lake
- In a secluded spot in the woods
- In a boat (be sure not to tip it!)
- In a bedroom in a cabin, moaning loudly
- In the pool shed or boathouse
Are you up for the challenge? Help us banish these stereotypes – comment and help us find more ideas for “horror movie” sex locations!
Posted: Across the Internet, Observations
15
April
2009
Touch has always been my favorite sense – there’s nothing like the warm, sensuous feel of skin on skin. No matter what the economy looks outside my bedroom window, you can bet I’ll still be enjoying myself between the sheets. Sex will always be a source of intimacy and comfort, especially in these changing times. At HealthyandActive, we’re always here to give you what you need and we aim to please, so check out our new Stimulus Event, where you can save up to 70% on over 30 very stimulating sex toys!
Here’s just a sample of some of my favs, and some I’m had some up close and personal experience with:
Enjoy a little stimulation from H&A!
Posted: Across the Internet, Economy, For Her, For Him, Sex Toys
19
March
2009
We’re becoming a more health conscious society as each day goes by. Sure, we do still love our fast food joints, but more and more people are spending time in the gym, trying to eat healthier foods, and understanding that our every day mood and behavior can dramatically impact our health. I came across WebMD’s very informative article, “10 Surprising Health Benefits of Sex”. Sex is always a little hotter when it’s though of as a bit naughty, but it’s good for you and we encourage you to partake. Often!
Here’s some of the benefits of having more sex:
1. Sex is a stress reliever.
2. Sex improves your immune system.
3. Sex burns calories.
4. More sex means improved heart health.
5. Sex increases your self-esteem and confidence.
6. Sex helps you feel closer with your significant other.
7. Have a headache? Sex helps you release all that tension.
8. Sex can help reduce the risk of prostate cancer.
9. Sex improves pelvic floor muscles.
10. Mmm, sex helps you sleep much, much better.
So go ahead and enjoy yourself! If you don’t have the luxury of having sex whenever you’d like with a partner, have fun solo-style with Vibrators and Male Masturbators for the guys.
Posted: Across the Internet, For Her, For Him, Observations, Sex Toys
3
March
2009
You’ve heard the old adage – “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”. The two planets often have trouble communicating and figuring out what the other really wants. Well, Cognitive Daily has shed some light on it in their “Casual Fridays: You think THAT is romantic?” post.
The post holds several key graphs that illuminate how men and women really feel, and what they actually find sexy. Check out the article for the full insights, but here’s our two favorite charts from the article:
How Women Feel About Sex Toys and Sexy Nightwear:
How Men Think Women Feel:
So guys, you don’t think women find sex toys and sexy nightwear romantic? Think again. I mean, you may not want to present us with some on the first date, but if we’ve been going out with you for a few months and we’ve been intimate, go ahead and gift us with a fun, girly sex toy (think The Rabbit Vibrator), and some sexy lingerie (like this hot and pretty Lace Cami and Boyshorts).
It’s not the 1950s anymore, boys, ease up! 
Posted: Across the Internet, For Her, For Him, Observations
3
February
2009
Eliot
While there is an inherent individuality in all blogs, naughtyeliot’s Thoughts On Naughtiness & Kink strikes the reader immediately with it’s ‘difference’. It is not only the style of her blog that reads more like a diary than any other blog I’ve seen, but Eliot herself who seems a diary-writer. Is that a term? It is now.
Essentially, there is an absolute interest in honesty. Eliot may be hiding a bit more than most sex bloggers, never revealing her face, but she contradicts this anonymity with what I never doubt to be the purest of truths. While she employs a welcoming style and language, this is Eliot’s space. It is categorized, asked and answered, addressed and redressed, and grown in. In short, it is the written version of a person. I get the distinct impression that while Eliot is happy to have you, were no one ever to read her blog again, that would be fine too. This is first and foremost for her.
The most obvious thing that sets Eliot apart from most sex bloggers, and most adults, really, is that she is a virgin. She is most acutely sexually aware and sexually explorative, but in the truest senses of the word she completely satisfies the requirements. This virginity is tied to nothing but the woman herself – not religion, not patriarchal rebellion – none of the usual suspects. In that she owns this aspect of herself so completely, she and the reader are permitted a rare insight into the wide-eyed wonder of a woman quite realized, but as of yet, physically bound by nothing and no one but her choice. There is no obvious A+B=C. I certainly don’t feel confident that any given experience or lack thereof has produced any subsequent emotion or personality trait. However, this virginity does play into things in the logical way, and it makes for an interesting possibility of a defined ‘before and after’ Eliot.
I have only been talking with Eliot on Twitter a short time, but can say that I felt immediately at ease with her. While I wish she was more accepting of herself and her body, I would be lying were I to say I am completely at ease with myself or my own, so I understand it’s a journey, and am confident she is heading in the right direction for her. I’m also confident she has a lot to offer, and you won’t be disappointed if you give her a read. Not that she needs you to.
Posted: Across the Internet, Observations
