Indulge In The Sensations of Sex0

We barely have time to breathe, let alone really enjoy sex in our fast-paced, busy lives. We’ve all heard how great sex can reduce stress and help us feel happier, but we have little time to devote to a long sex session. It’s time to start focusing on the sensations of sex, rather than just having sex. Thing about the 5 senses: touch, taste, sight, smell, and hearing. You experience all these senses when you have sex, but do you ever really notice them?

Set an hour aside – turn off your cell phone and all outside distractions. Split the hour into four 15-minute segments:

First 15 Minutes: Focus on gently massaging your partner. Run your palms down their back, breathe seductively into their ear. Touch everywhere except on their most pleasure-inducing spots. Breathe in how your partner smells, hear them moan, and focus on touch and caress.

Next 15 Minutes: Allow your fingers to now gently tease your partner’s moan-inducing zoans, taste them with your tongue. But remember – only touching with your hands and mouth for these 15 minutes. Watch how they respond to your touch and tongue, and focus on increasing your intensity on these areas. You’ll most likely both be ready to climax in anticipation, but this is worth the wait.

Next 15 Minutes: You’ll both be moaning and gasping in pleasure at this point. You’ve experieced all the 5 senses at this point – so go ahead and enter your partner. No need to race to the finish line – again focus on touch and the experience of sex.

Last 15 Minutes: Chances are, you were both so aroused you climaxed fairly quickly. Spend these last 15 minutes enjoying the feeling of skin against skin – relax and breathe each other in.

Enjoy!

Posted: For Her, For Him, Orgasms

H&A’s Favorite Things: Sexy Lingerie and Feather Ticklers0

Most people have a few favorite hobbies, like music, art, movies, etc. Well, we like sexy lingerie and feather ticklers, but that’s just us. Enjoy taking a glimpse into our favorite things:

Hope you liked a little peek into our life!

Posted: For Her, For Him

Excuse Me, How Can We Help Stimulate You?1

Touch has always been my favorite sense – there’s nothing like the warm, sensuous feel of skin on skin. No matter what the economy looks outside my bedroom window, you can bet I’ll still be enjoying myself between the sheets. Sex will always be a source of intimacy and comfort, especially in these changing times. At HealthyandActive, we’re always here to give you what you need and we aim to please, so check out our new Stimulus Event, where you can save up to 70% on over 30 very stimulating sex toys!

Here’s just a sample of some of my favs, and some I’m had some up close and personal experience with:

Enjoy a little stimulation from H&A!

Posted: Across the Internet, Economy, For Her, For Him, Sex Toys

Hmm, What Could That Smile Be From?0

So you’ve got a bright smile on your face this morning – hmm, what could you have been doing last night, wink wink! We’ve talked about how happy sex can make us feel, and it’s completely true. I’ve often noticed how some people who are ordinarily a little tired in the morning suddenly have a bright smile across their face, and I’ve knowingly smiled inside. Healthy sex is nothing to shy away from, and sure you may be a bit sleepy in the morning, but there’s nothing like that next-morning smile. You’ve released tension, bonded with your partner, and indulged in your passions. And oh, just imagine rolling over and massaging your partner with Kama Sutra Body Creme. Mmm, now that is a good way to start the day!

Good morning, all!

Posted: For Her, For Him, Observations, Orgasms

Sex Drive – Who’s Is Higher, Men or Women?0

We’ve all heard many a time that men have higher sex drives, but I know plenty a lady who say they think about sex and want sex just as much as men. It may simply be that stereotypes hold men as the more sexually dominant gender, and women more submissive. But the times are quickly changing and women now encouraged to embrace their sexuality. So tell us, who do you think has a higher sex drive, men or women?

Check out the WebMD.com article, “Sex Drive: How Do Men and Women Compare”. The article states that men may have a more “straightforward” sex drive (no pun intended, hehe), but the forces that drive women’s sex drives are a bit more complex, leaving them more open to experimentation. Interestingly, the article says, “Women with higher education levels were more likely to have performed a wider variety of sexual practices (such as oral sex); education made less of a difference with men.”

There’s no easy answer to this question, but we want to hear from you! Who do you feel really has a higher sex drive?

Posted: For Her, For Him, Observations, Orgasms, Q&A