18
August
2008
I have a few friends who live the poly lifestyle and completely enjoy it. They’re smart, intelligent and funny individuals. I say this because I would like to hear your take on the poly lifestyle.
For those who aren’t familiar, poly simply means more than one relationship. However, with the friends I have, they have one steady relationships with little “dips” on the side. Both partners are fully aware of the arrangement and are fine with the way things are. Some of you might like that idea, but don’t know how to approach your partner about it — that can be a tricky proposition to make. Some of you might be totally turned off by the idea — you enjoy that feel of monogamy.
So sound off and get off: Where do you stand on poly relationships?
I was reminded of this because in my Monday morning overview of Healthy and Active, I remembered we sell a video on how to establish a threesome, which for some could be a precursor to a poly style relationship — after all in this situation you’re inviting another person into your bedroom.
Posted: For Her, For Him, Observations
1
August
2008
Some people actually enjoy getting it on in places where they might get caught — gee, this makes me think that Sex and the City was way ahead of its time. Remember that episode where Miranda was dating a guy who liked to have sex in different places of New York City?
How many of you out there enjoy getting it on discreetly in plain sight? 
Posted: Fetish Friday, Observations, Sexual Prowess
25
July
2008
Yeah, you read that right!
One popular fetish out there for sexual gratification is cock and ball torture. It does as the name implies: the male is subject to different forms of play revolving around his penis and testicles. For some men, this is ecstasy; for some men, it’s cringe-worthy. But where do YOU stand on the subject? Do you get some sexual satisfaction out of cock and ball play.
Speaking of fetishes, I was traveling through Wikipedia this week (cause EVERYONE travels through Wikipedia) and I came across this story of a lady who’s big fetish in life was to be tortured and killed. Ultimately she got someone to fulfill her fantasy and that guy ended up in prison (no surprise there). Not to make this blog into any macabre, but you have to wonder how she came to the conclusion that she was into that. Needless to say that’s only something you can realize once whether you like it or not.
But here, let me end this blogging week on something more fun and exciting. One of my favorite new items this week was the Royal Rabbit Kit. It allows you to take a simple silver vibrator and transform it into a rabbit vibrator or a vibrating dildo. Now you wouldn’t have to worry about what kind of toy you wanted at any particular time — maybe my blog posting colleague can add this to her “Personal Time” toy collection
Feel free to checkout the Royal Rabbit Kit, a 7-piece set for only $30. Gee, for a second there I thought I was selling silverware.
Posted: Fetish Friday, For Her, For Him, Observations, Sex Toys
23
July
2008
A new study out reminds me of this episode of I Love Lucy. Lucy was talking with one of her neighbors, an older lady, who had a crush on the grocer. Lucy was first in shock that her neighbor was so amorous. Her neighbor’s reply: “Just because there’s snow on the roof, doesn’t mean there isn’t a fire in the furnace”. I almost took that she was referring to her vagina as the furnace, of course, given the times of that show, she must’ve just meant heart…yeah, that’s right heart…
And while we’re on the subject of that show, can someone explain to me how two people can sleep in separate beds (especially beds only capable of holding one person in them) and yet the wife still ends up pregnant? There must’ve been some great balancing acts going on.
Anyway, a new study says that more 70 year olds are having more sex often. This gives much more credibility to the Blanche Deveraux character on Golden Girls doesn’t it!? This also goes to show that good sex is good sex no matter the age. Every man and women enjoys a good orgasm, the feel, the touch, the embrace, the penetration, the intercourse.
So yes, it’s possible that you could walk by your parents’ room and hear more than just Jay Leno or, if you work at a retirement community, there could be plenty going on when you’re not paying attention or off-duty :-).
Ladies and Gentlemen, I present to you: Sex, the equal opportunity satisfier!
Posted: Observations, Sexual Prowess
17
July
2008
We know you’re sexy, and by virtue of association, you make your city sexy. But does yours make the list? 
Amazon.com recently compiled a list of the top 20 most romantic US cities based on the percentage of romantic/sex books they purchased. We’ve listed the top 20 below - leave us a comment if you live in one of them, and tell us why it’s so sexy. If your city isn’t on the list, tell us why it should be!
Top 20 Sexiest Cities
1. Alexandria, Virginia
2. Cambridge, Massachusetts
3. Miami, Florida
4. Irvine, California
5. Ann Arbor, Michigan
6. Orlando, Florida
7. Berkeley, California
8. Scottsdale, Arizona
9. Arlington, Virginia
10. Atlanta, Georgia
11. Washington, D.C.
12. Pasadena, California
13. Bellevue, Washington
14. Seattle, Washington
15. San Francisco, California
16. Columbia, South Carolina
17. Tallahassee, Florida
18. Austin, Texas
19. Richmond, Virginia
20. Knoxville, Tennessee
Posted: Observations
