20
October
2010
Most people know Wednesday to be “Hump Day”, but today we’re giving it an extra special meaning. You see, today is Spirit Day, a day to remember the recent wave of gay-related suicides that have taken place. People are encouraged, today, to wear purple to show their support for this initiative.
We are of the belief that everyone should be able to live their life free and open without worry of ridicule based upon their sexual orientation. We should do what we can to make our society an open-arms, welcoming community for all.
Posted: Across the Internet, News, Observations
19
October
2010
I’m sure that recently you’ve heard the story of an adult performer who had tested positive for HIV. Because of this news, adult video companies have shut down productions and performers are being tested to see if they have come into contact with the virus as well.
The type of buzz and discussion that this news generated goes to show that AIDS is still a very powerful and relevant subject – especially in today’s culture which broadcasts plenty of sexual themes via television, movies, books and even some video games. Since sex is very prevalent, diseases such as HIV/Aids are also given a higher profile.
There have been many wonderful things done to bring awareness to the subject, including the recent AIDS Walk LA. One of the ladies who works here at Healthy and Active was highly engaged in the effort, even going as far as to help plan/execute a fundraiser to gather additional money for the event. Pictures from the event can be seen via AVN (link).
Now, we all agree that sex is a wonderful experience between partners but we want you to always be safe and sexy. It’s how the Twitter account signs off every day and it something we truly subscribe to.
While this month is about Breast Cancer awareness, use this opportunity to also get tested for testicular cancer (men), HIV and other infections. Have open and honest discussions with your partner about these topics and use condoms.
Be safe and sexy, everyone!
Posted: News, Observations, Sexual Health
22
September
2010
So there was this episode of Nightline, last night, that dealt with women’s sexuality; but it was done from the angle that most major TV networks won’t run commercials/advertisements for enhancements or supplements that help boost women’s libido, despite the fact that there are tons of commercials (Cialis, Viagra, etc) that run all of the time to help male sexual dysfunction. The story was trying to figure out why male sexuality can be freely explored (even to the point that it can gain airtime during the Super Bowl — one of the most watched events on television) and yet ads for women’s enhancement can’t even get a mention.
The piece focused on two women who created a supplement called Provestra. While I can’t personally speak to it’s effectiveness, the interview targeted the point that the supplement couldn’t even get airtime in an era that shows male sexual dysfunction ads during prime time television (let alone late at night).
As I was watching the interview, I was taken back as I don’t really remember seeing many ads that specifically focus on helping women. The news piece stated that it was women who deal more with sexual issues than men, yet it was men who was being targeted the most.
One striking part of the interview was that when the women would present their ads to TV stations and networks, they were told they had to edit it down to not include things like ‘sexuality’, etc. even though that’s exactly what the ad is about. They then showed a KY Jelly commercial as an example of ads that didn’t have to water themselves down to get their point across.
So I wanted to ask you guys, what do you think? Should supplements that aim to women receive just as much available airtime as male supplements? Do you use any of these supplements and care to talk about their effectiveness (male or female — no real names necessary)?
Posted: Across the Internet, For Her, Observations, Orgasms, Q&A, Sexual Health, Sexual Prowess
16
September
2010
I just read an article that discusses how music is becoming very sexualized, thanks to the likes of performers like Lady Gaga and Rihanna. In fact, the article goes on to share this quote:
“Porn has evolved from the airbrushed misogyny of glossy spreads in Playboy and the smutty films sold in seedy shops. It is corporate and easily available… Porn has evolved to its logical conclusion. It turned women into sexual commodities and then killed women as human beings. And it has won the culture war. Pornography and the commercial mainstream have fused.”
The article is located, at this link, so you can read it for yourself, but I’m curious to know what you think about music and the sexualization of it.
Posted: Across the Internet, Observations
10
September
2010
Whenever, I look through our categories I’m always amazed by the number of positioning aids there are. Probably just as many positioning aids as there are sexual positions. For those following me on Twitter, I tend to ask a lot of sexual questions because they’re fun and because, for some, it really makes them take a hard look (no pun intended) at their sex life.
So one of those questions is: favorite sexual position. Mine would be spoon (but if you followed me on Twitter, you would know that!). But tell me what your favorite sexual position is and why? Is it the angle, the comfort, the way you’re able to look into your partner’s eyes… what is is about your fav position that placed it at the top of the list?
By the way, if you’re interested in the product in the photo, that’s the Sportsheets Penetration Station (a kick ass name for a product, if you ask me). It’s available for $54.00.
Posted: Observations, Q&A, Sexual Prowess
