How many orgasms have you had in a single 24 hour period? Guys may have a harder time answering this question, but you ladies care to share about that? As I read blogs out there, I’m reading stories of girls who got in the morning, mid-morning, noon, 3pm, before dinner, after dinner, and right before sleeping!
Just how many orgasms can one have?
What do you think of when you hear bondage? Are you thinking of people in heavy leather outfits, smacking each other around in dark, wet dungeons? Do you think of loud noises and barking orders and people on all fours? Do those thoughts turn you on anyway? :-). What I’m getting as is, even the most vanilla (or strawberry) of couples can enjoy light bondage play. You don’t need to be a welder to create your own bondage gear, either.
Bondage products are available in a beginner’s format. They are usually made of materials like soft faux leather and neoprene. They wrap around the body and use Velcro (for example) to lock. They are made to be very comfortable and to allow partners to engage in a play designed around being dominant or submissive. Imagine having your partner bound to the bed, while you run a tickler over them. Or having them locked to the headboard on their stomach, while you hoist their waist into the air and give it to them doggy style.
Women, imagine that your man is bound by his wrists and can’t stroke himself while you do the most erotic of strip teases. Men, imagine that your girl is locked to the bed while you use a vibrator to make her orgasm again and again (and again, you smooth devil you!).
Of course, with all bondage play, there comes safety. Main point is to always make sure that your partner is comfortable. That’s why you have what’s called a safeword. This word can be any code word you two agree on that will immediately tell the other that things are getting a bit too rough. As long as that phrase isn’t “Oh, God!” or “That feels good”, you’re in pretty good shape to pick anything.
Why not give light bondage a try? If you have given it a whirl (or a spank or a flog), leave a comment and tell us about it. Tell us a story, we like stories.
This has been a question that has plagued us for the longest time: What’s the power behind the orgasm? What is it about those few minutes of pleasure that make us want more, that makes us so glad we put up with the horrible dinner experience, that makes men fall asleep. You ask someone if they would want their favorite dinner whenever they asked for it for a year or one good strong orgasm once — who’s NOT picking the orgasm?
But what is it about that? I don’t mean for you all to start giving the Web MD answer to the question :-), but speak personally. Why do you think you enjoy your orgasms so much? Would you take a good orgasm over good food for a year? I only ask it that way because some of us have returned from lunch.
If everyone in the world had an orgasm for each day that these primaries lasted, we’d all be more mellow people. Don’t you think?
If you’ve seen those old school movies or television shows you’ve seen the scene: A couple comes home from work (or most times the man comes home; the wife was home all day taking care of the house). They sit down to have dinner and discuss their day, then they retire to the living room for that they called a nightcap. The nightcap usually consisted of a glass of scotch or whiskey. I always thought that the idea of it was to relax you enough so that you could sleep easier and be more refreshed in the morning.
Apparently, these couples didn’t have sex. I would think that the orgasm is a much better nightcap than a glass of alcohol.
Think about it. Great sex culminating with a great orgasm uses up almost all of the energy in your body. You’ve had to absorb so much sexual pleasure that finally when you release, your body can’t take anymore. You know those “Don’t touch me.” moments. Well isn’t your body so relaxed at that point that sleep would be the next logical option? Well men seem to have that down to a science, but I truly think that what most people would prefer is a money shot rather than a whiskey shot.
But you tell me: Are there those of you out there who still do the nightcap ritual? Do you prefer the drink before bed or a roll in the hay? Heck, do you prefer both?
And I still wonder, watching old television, how can a couple sleep in separate beds but still end up having a baby? Maybe someone can give me a plausible theory on that one.
Til next time,
Best Wishes for Better Sex
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