22
September
2010

So there was this episode of Nightline, last night, that dealt with women’s sexuality; but it was done from the angle that most major TV networks won’t run commercials/advertisements for enhancements or supplements that help boost women’s libido, despite the fact that there are tons of commercials (Cialis, Viagra, etc) that run all of the time to help male sexual dysfunction. The story was trying to figure out why male sexuality can be freely explored (even to the point that it can gain airtime during the Super Bowl — one of the most watched events on television) and yet ads for women’s enhancement can’t even get a mention.
The piece focused on two women who created a supplement called Provestra. While I can’t personally speak to it’s effectiveness, the interview targeted the point that the supplement couldn’t even get airtime in an era that shows male sexual dysfunction ads during prime time television (let alone late at night).
As I was watching the interview, I was taken back as I don’t really remember seeing many ads that specifically focus on helping women. The news piece stated that it was women who deal more with sexual issues than men, yet it was men who was being targeted the most.
One striking part of the interview was that when the women would present their ads to TV stations and networks, they were told they had to edit it down to not include things like ‘sexuality’, etc. even though that’s exactly what the ad is about. They then showed a KY Jelly commercial as an example of ads that didn’t have to water themselves down to get their point across.
So I wanted to ask you guys, what do you think? Should supplements that aim to women receive just as much available airtime as male supplements? Do you use any of these supplements and care to talk about their effectiveness (male or female — no real names necessary)?
Posted: Across the Internet, For Her, Observations, Orgasms, Q&A, Sexual Health, Sexual Prowess
28
April
2009
We barely have time to breathe, let alone really enjoy sex in our fast-paced, busy lives. We’ve all heard how great sex can reduce stress and help us feel happier, but we have little time to devote to a long sex session. It’s time to start focusing on the sensations of sex, rather than just having sex. Thing about the 5 senses: touch, taste, sight, smell, and hearing. You experience all these senses when you have sex, but do you ever really notice them?
Set an hour aside – turn off your cell phone and all outside distractions. Split the hour into four 15-minute segments:
First 15 Minutes: Focus on gently massaging your partner. Run your palms down their back, breathe seductively into their ear. Touch everywhere except on their most pleasure-inducing spots. Breathe in how your partner smells, hear them moan, and focus on touch and caress.
Next 15 Minutes: Allow your fingers to now gently tease your partner’s moan-inducing zoans, taste them with your tongue. But remember – only touching with your hands and mouth for these 15 minutes. Watch how they respond to your touch and tongue, and focus on increasing your intensity on these areas. You’ll most likely both be ready to climax in anticipation, but this is worth the wait.
Next 15 Minutes: You’ll both be moaning and gasping in pleasure at this point. You’ve experieced all the 5 senses at this point – so go ahead and enter your partner. No need to race to the finish line – again focus on touch and the experience of sex.
Last 15 Minutes: Chances are, you were both so aroused you climaxed fairly quickly. Spend these last 15 minutes enjoying the feeling of skin against skin – relax and breathe each other in.
Enjoy!
Posted: For Her, For Him, Orgasms
7
April
2009
So you’ve got a bright smile on your face this morning – hmm, what could you have been doing last night, wink wink! We’ve talked about how happy sex can make us feel, and it’s completely true. I’ve often noticed how some people who are ordinarily a little tired in the morning suddenly have a bright smile across their face, and I’ve knowingly smiled inside. Healthy sex is nothing to shy away from, and sure you may be a bit sleepy in the morning, but there’s nothing like that next-morning smile. You’ve released tension, bonded with your partner, and indulged in your passions. And oh, just imagine rolling over and massaging your partner with Kama Sutra Body Creme. Mmm, now that is a good way to start the day!

Good morning, all!
Posted: For Her, For Him, Observations, Orgasms
31
March
2009
We’ve all heard many a time that men have higher sex drives, but I know plenty a lady who say they think about sex and want sex just as much as men. It may simply be that stereotypes hold men as the more sexually dominant gender, and women more submissive. But the times are quickly changing and women now encouraged to embrace their sexuality. So tell us, who do you think has a higher sex drive, men or women?
Check out the WebMD.com article, “Sex Drive: How Do Men and Women Compare”. The article states that men may have a more “straightforward” sex drive (no pun intended, hehe), but the forces that drive women’s sex drives are a bit more complex, leaving them more open to experimentation. Interestingly, the article says, “Women with higher education levels were more likely to have performed a wider variety of sexual practices (such as oral sex); education made less of a difference with men.”
There’s no easy answer to this question, but we want to hear from you! Who do you feel really has a higher sex drive?
Posted: For Her, For Him, Observations, Orgasms, Q&A
15
January
2009
Between working, having dinner with friends, running errands, and spending time with our significant others, there’s sometimes just not enough hours in the day to hit the gym. I know I would like to shape up a bit, but the gym’s been packed after New Year’s, and I tend to be a busy bee. A friend of mine suggested, “just have sex!”. According to HealthStatus.com’s Calorie Calculator, 30 minutes of sex equals around 100-150 calories burned!

So, if you have sex five times a week (or more!), that’s atleast 500 calories burned, and you’ll be a whole lot happier and relaxed, too! You don’t need to spend money on a gym membership, and you’ll spend some quality time with your significant other. What can beat that? Add the Blue Liberator Ramp and you can take sex and the pleasure up a notch to burn even more calories!
Looking forward to a very pleasurable New Year!
Posted: Adult Events, For Her, For Him, Observations, Orgasms, Sex Toys, Sexual Prowess